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Subscribe to the email list to make sure you don’t miss out when doors next re-open, and I’ll also be sharing personal anecdotes and other childfree living things along the way – books, podcasts, events, films etc.


I set up the Childfree Lounge to be a cosy space on the internet where women who are childfree, can come to embrace the lifestyle they’ve chosen, and have honest, open conversations without fear of judgement.

It’s also a place for general chatter, sharing recommendations, being inspired and supported by others, and meeting like-minded people.

By joining, you’ll also be able to take part in the book club, have access to hard-to-get tickets to concerts, theatre, sports and other live events, and learn from guest experts who come to speak to us every month.

Hello, I’m Erin, and I’ve known for a long time that children weren’t going to be on my path through life. I’ve also heard all the usual responses about being selfish, regretting it later, being lonely, and never finding a partner etc.

Now, as a woman in her mid-30s, and as friends and family are having children, I recognise how important it is to be able to connect with others who have chosen the same, childfree lifestyle as me. So I set about creating a place free of judgement and trolls, but also somewhere relaxed and fun!

I’d love to have you join this private membership, to make those valuable conections, share your experiences, and truly embrace the lifestlye we’ve all chosen.

Erin Spurling - Childfree Lounge

My mission is to change the conversation for and about women who choose to embrace a childfree lifestyle, whether that’s by choice or circumstance.

Having children is not an obligation, and I’d love nothing more than for those of us without children to be able to live our lives confidently and unapologetically, and without judgement.

Speaking out and creating this membership is about positivity, friendship, connections, education, support, reducing loneliness, increasing confidence, changing the conversation and allowing all women to proudly own their lives and decisions.

It’s not about parent-bashing, judgement, competition, anti-natalism, or any of the other negative childfree stereotypes.


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